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My father  

2012-06-01 11:19:20|  分类: English |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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This is the eventful period during which some dissatisfactory things have occured one after another.  I simply can be unbearable. In the eary July last year, my mother passed away, and just at the beginning of 2012, my elder brother disappeared in this world unexpectedly. My mother-in-law fell in and was in hospital for one more weeks in Novemember. She was hospitalized by hypertension, and then sticks to taking medine everyday. In late February, my wife was sent to hospital and had an operation, as of today, she has been in the course of recovery.

Unfortunately, my father begins to disturb me. He always holds the idea to find an old life partner since my mother passed away. He ever asked someone who lives in the hometown to care about who wants to find a life partner. Last month, he left Wuhan without telling us what he wanted to do. Several days later, he phoned me that he was in Qianjiang city and met the would-be partner. He told me that woman is a retiree who can claim the retirement pay about two thousand yuan per month, and her's husband has passed away for nearly twelve years. Later, my young sister told me he went there and was accompied by two matchmakers. My father said he was satisfactory with that woman.

My elder sister and her husband who live in countryside hold the quite different opinion as to my father's behaviour. They said he could not have the idea to find a partner so quickly less than one year after my mother passed away. Even worse, they said  my father could not do like that since his son has just passed away less than half a year. My eld brother did not marry till he left the world. In contrast with my father's behaviour, how do you say that my father is eager to have a life partner without considering that his son was unmarried and passed away accidently?

My father consulted with me one day. I expressed my opinion that I disagreed with him but I paied my homage to his behaviour. He said he only wanted to receive my blessing phone if he decided to be together with that woman. This week he left for hometown and on Wednesday he called me that he hoped we should receive him and that old woman to Wuhan. Frankly speaking, his behaviour was strongly against by my relatives in the hometown. 

I hold a middle attitude towards my father's behaviour, but I only want to receive them after the anniversary of  my mother. I think my suggestion was reasonable and it can blend my sisters' opinions. However, my father disagreed with me and asked that we must receive them on weekend. Yesterday noon just before the lunch, his phone came and I had a quarrel with him.

I don't know why my father is so eager to have a woman with him. Even he can not accept my suggestion I will receive that woman at Qianjina City after my mother's anniversary.

Something can not be clearly expressed in this article. It must be complicated to be clear about the whole course. At the beginning, my wife said nothing as to his behaviour. But yesterday, she became very displealsed with him, and finally she had a row with me last night. She said my father only considered himself without caring about the family misfortune that occured consecutively in short time.

I don't kwow how to do. And my father is still waiting my call. Last night I didn't  answer his call from the hometown.


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